Since you don’t have this, my god you must love yourself

Since you don’t have this, my god you must love yourself

You deserve the best and most loving grown kids. Keep busy. Put yourself first. I dream of the life you have now

God is there for you so as to be a source of strength. There are many religions and ways of prayer that bring healing and comfort.

My brother was borderline. I chased his love for decades, begging for approval. Most of the important people in my life are borderline and I had to figure out why I put up with and attract these personalities. Now that I’ve figured it out, I’m going to make friends with low drama people and just keeping things very simple.

Must be very painful for you. Bit I just admire your wisdom and strength in this situation. Divorce abusive husband after many years is heroic! (Personal experience)Finding wisdom to separate yourself from problems of your loved ones is another great challenge!!